Comments on: Anniversary Blues

By: Zeenat

Zeenat — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 03:46:31 +0000

Umm.. Belated Anniversary wishes Andy! Am wondering if I can add anything to what the pros have already said abt husbands and anniversaries. Umm..

By: Lubi

Lubi — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 21:14:10 +0000

I had written long response to this post…and it didn’t get published.

Maybe it was way too long

By: Lubi

Lubi — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 22:02:23 +0000

For the last 9yrs, I’ve dealt with Anniversary Blues and this year our 10th one is fast-approaching and I’m actually having anxiety pangs abt it already…I honestly do not want to feel the same, or worse…feel more worse so I’m making my own plans.
Yes Andy, whatever Sanju said is right…most Men can never get it right so they quit trying anyways…so do urself a favor ‘n do something for urself instead and just hand over the bill to your “better” half haa haa!!

By: andaleeb.w

andaleeb.w — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 08:36:46 +0000

thanks so much sanju…what you said in the first paragraph made a lot of sense to me…thanks again!:)

By: Sanju

Sanju — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 05:06:41 +0000

First of all belated HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!and sorry about how it turned out..

Anyways, just the feeling of remembering anniversary and the sweet memories of the wedding day and union of 2 almost strangers (at least in my case) brings smile to the face.. so that itself is celebrating.. Everything else is just the token of that emotion or feeling.. So don’t worry if the materialistic expression of the feeling was not accomplished.. It happens.. Men are usually not too keen about these things.. even whenever they do, its more for avoiding the headache they may have to go through if they didn’t

So cheer up and buy something nice for yourself.. I learnt one lesson in my married life, when the other half don’t shower you with gifts, do it for yourself..and just let them know what they gifted you .. hehehehe